Would you like to have more intimacy across your relationships?
Does it feel like nourishing personal connection
is just out of your reach?

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“Dr. Jessica Tartaro is a brilliant and skilled intimacy coach and instructor of conscious movement practices. Through her keen intuition, insight and knowledge, she guides groups and individuals to access their deeper driving desires for trust, connection and creative self expression. Jessica leads through playfulness, honesty and curiosity which creates an atmosphere of safety and permission for others to access and awaken that within themselves. She has a crystal clear, direct and engaging communication style with an uncanny ability to transmit both simple and complex concepts. This puts her students and clients at ease. Finally, she has an endearing ability to zero in with laser focus on what's most important in the moment and an ability to deliver what she sees with grace. Jessica is a joy to work with! Learning through play and pleasure is the new frontier and she's on the leading edge.”
~Monica Blossom
Founder + Director at Ecstatic Dance Dallas
VP, Exec Recruiting | Technology




Let's face it. Intimacy can be tough.
I have dedicated my life to teaching about healthy relating, and I assure you, every day I am still humbled by how hard it is to stay connected!
As a psychotherapist and intimacy coach, this is what I have learned.
Intimacy is not about mastery - it's about practice. And that's what I help you do. When you sign up for my services, you and I work as a team to practice and improve your ability to connect.
In love. In sexuality. In business. In creativity. In all areas of your life.
If you are someone who has felt stuck in your ability to express yourself, to find your words to translate on the outside what you feel on the inside and to take the risk to say what you really feel, then you are in the right place.
If you have ever felt like the "real you" is trapped behind shame, doubt, judgments or an old script about how you "should behave", but that someone more vibrant, more raw, more honest and more powerful, is right there just behind those blocks, then you are in the right place.
If you are one of those people who simply feels so much, all the way through, but has always felt like it wasn't safe to express or trust or even admit how much you felt, then you are definitely in the right place.
If you have struggled with asking for what you want in relationship, and have told yourself, I can't possibly have it just how I want it, but yet that yearning persists, then you are in the right place.
I offer my clients a taste of something different. Permission fromt the inside to trust how you feel, to find the language to express that to the world and to navigate building just the right connection to support the full you. A journey that begins with a vital, yet simple question: what do you want?
In a one hour, complementary session called an "Exploratory", you and I will explore your answer to that question. We will ask, what would it look like if you had your life just how you wanted it, in every area? And, what is in the way of you having it? These answers will become the compass for our work.
During your Exploratory, I will let you know how I would support you to craft the life of your desire. I will give you examples of tools I would teach you, and suggest how long we might work together to achieve or resolve your issues. At the end of that session, you can decide whether or not you want to work with me. Sound good?
Think of the Exploratory like a chance to meet one another, and for you to get a feel for how I work, before you make up your mind to dive in!
My clients receive the benefit of my desire-based coaching, combined with my years of experience as a psychotherapist working with veterans and medical patients. This means that if you decide to work with me, we can work on the whole you. Body and mind. Past and present. Sex and self. And all the ways those are related.
Interested in learning more?
What Clients Are Saying
"Since working with Jessica I have experienced some major shifts. I have done a lot of personal growth work over the last 2 decades but her work has allowed me to move from head knowledge to heart and body centered wisdom. The results of which have been extraordinary in both my personal and professional life. I highly recomend her."
~Jon Prophet
Founder/Coach
TheAlchemyofInfluence.com
"My sessions with Jessica were incredibly helpful. There were moments when I got to see a new aspect of myself or my patterning so clearly that it burned me on the inside. I've developed some tools to help me be more empowered. I'm so grateful!!!”
~K.Hostikka
Certified Health &
Wellness Coach
Journeyintohealth.net
"Jessica is an awesome coach to work with if your goal is to live a full and rich life imbued with desire and play. She has a beautiful combination of fierce love, clarity and compassion. She has pristine aim in working with clients to bring their brilliance out and to creating their lives from a place of expansion and desire. I’ve had the pleasure of watching Jessica hold clients with exquisite attention and compassion. She is a good ally to have on your journey."
~Yia Vang
Program Manager and Senior Faculty OneTaste, San Francisco
"I've known a lot of psychologists, coaches, consultants, and counselors in my work, and Jessica is one of the best. With her PhD work and training in intimacy and desire as well as other healing modalities, she offers nuance and insight that very few others can match. In addition, she is a role model for leadership in multiple local communities. Anyone who Jessica coaches will hear what they need to know when they need it and get some of the best guidance out there for living a more capable and pleasurable life."
~Matthew Scheer
Intimacy & Desire Coach
Austin, Texas
If so, enter your details in the form on the right to schedule your free Exploratory Session and to find out if my services are right for you!